I used to audition a lot. That was back when I was in my early 30’s. I had a little cable TV show and a commercial agent who sent me on a ton of casting calls. I landed a few callbacks and a few international spots, but my acting career never really took off.
Maybe I lacked confidence or maybe I was slightly more quirky than super model-y. It didn’t matter, I told myself. I’m a writer first and I’ve got meaningful work. Besides that, in my mid-30s, I hit my stride when I discovered my life’s purpose: to be a mother to Hayden, Charlotte and Catherine.
So last year, when my Aunt Ellen, (the poet Ellen Wade Beals) recommended that I audition for the Listen To Your Mother show, I figured maybe now I’ve got a shot. I’m wiser and more confident. I’ve got a lot of funny essays about parenting. I can do this.
At the audition last year, I read a really good piece of writing — a story about dropping Hayden off at Camp Dudley. My essay was so funny and touching. (See what I mean: I have more confidence.)
When I read the Camp Dudley essay to the several women who were holding the auditions, I detected one (Holly, maybe?) had a tear in her eye.
“I nailed it,” I thought. “I’ve got it! I might still be a successful performer as well as mother, blogger, wife, sister, teacher, worker, etc. Wow! It’s great to be alive!”
But I didn’t get it last year — despite the excrutiating beauty of that little gem of writing. So this year, when I got an email alert about the 2013 auditions for Listen To Your Mother, I brought in a piece of writing, slightly above average, about a tricky little bit of mothering and taking out the garbage with my son.
I was the last to audition. There were dozens of people who’d gone through the audition door ahead of me that Sunday afternoon.
Through the door, I could tell that the guy in the room just before me was really really good. I sat outside, getting nervous. The room was full of laughter as he left.
I recognized the women behind the table from last year, including Holly. But I felt no ill will towards them, just my inevitable lack of success.
I felt insecure. I think I made small talk, something like, “Wow! That guy who was just in here sounded really funny! I don’t know if you remember me. I auditioned last year and I heard the show was really good!”
I read my piece, stumbling in a few places. I did not feel confident as I walked out the door. After all, the year before, when I had felt confident? Nada.
So I was surprised, no, I was ecstatic, when, like a week later, I got a call from Amy that I was invited to be in the cast.
I don’t know if my piece is any good, but the show is really really good. And that guy who went in ahead of me, Jamie Fernandez, he’s in the show too and he is really really funny. The brief stories about mothering and mothers are funny, sad, scary, true, and lovely.
But don’t listen to me. I am not a good judge of my own writing. This Sunday, Mother’s Day, come to Symphony Space. Tell me what you think. We’ll have a drink at the Thalia.
Now is your chance to: Listen To Your Mother at Symphony Space
Come see the show! May 12, 2013 at 5pm! ($25/$30)
NYC tickets support this cause: Family to Family
- It’s Almost Time to Listen to Your Mother (blogher.com)
- The Mother of All Blogging (taleasofasierramadre.com)
- Kim Forde’s blog
- Elizabeth Robinson’s blog (and more pics from rehearsal!)
- NYC Producer Holly Rosen Fink (with giveaway)
- 2012 NYC cast member, Estelle Sobel Erasmus (another giveaway)
- Our director, Amy Wilson
- Our co-director, Shari Simpson
- An interview with cast member, Barbara Shriever Patrick
- Giveaway by Onica at Mommy Factor
- Giveaway by Kim Bongiorno
- 2012 cast member, Ilana, of Mommy Shorts is doing a brilliant photo challenge with a book giveaway and some tix to LTYM. You have to gocheck this out.
- Another giveaway by KiwiCanadian at Mama Goes BAM
- Couple more tickets up for grabs at Old School/New School Mom
And thanks Elizabeth for getting this list of links together!