It’s no wonder people find Christmas depressing. It’s a holiday in a dark month full of rabid consumerism and fake merriment.
Here’s how I’m going to power through the season:
1. I will be exceedingly good-natured, especially to crabby people. This is my passive-aggressive way — if I hold a door for you, a stranger, at the bank and you don’t say, Thank you, I will shout exuberantly, You’re welcome and have a beautiful holiday season!
2. Seriously, I will try to maintain a sunny attitude, even while facing layoffs, long lines, and disappointing gifts from my children.
3. I will give and go to a lot of holiday parties and have conversations with family and friends that are so deep and meaningful they cannot be summarized in a tweet. (But follow me any way on Twitter @MaryBethC — Self promotion? Not gonna stop!)
4. Delve into some childhood memories and try to make some damn good memories for my kids — but NOT memories of things like iPhones, but memories of experiences, like hanging out with cousins, eating fondue or looking at the Rockefeller tree. (We live in NYC and we never do any of the touristy, Christmas crap.)
5. Do some Christmas-y NYC things:
- see the Renaissance angels at the Met
- see the origami tree at the Museum of Natural History
- see the windows on 5th Avenue
- listen to Handel’s Messiah
- eat Scandinavian food
6. Write a lot.
7. Travel a lot (to Chicago and the Adirondacks).
8. Drink a lot (of egg nog).
This was last winter’s post from my visit to Hildene.
4 thoughts on “getting through december”
I spent Christmas in Oslo 4 years ago. I ate fish 3 times a day. They are all drink for Christmas. Stayed there for December and January. Talk about dark and depressing. But even though they were all morbidly depressed, I had a grand old time. Froze my hiney off too.
Sounds like good times in Norway!
I found myself needing something to focus on this December and decided to “find joy in the every day”. Here’s a link to my blog in case you’d like to check it out.
Cheers to a holiday season filled with lots of goodness!
This is a beautiful reminder of how to hold onto what matters this season!
I especially love the idea of being exceedingly nice to people – overcoming crabbiness with goodness, with smiles, with warmth.
And, speaking of beautiful, your blog, your words are truly wonderful. It was such a joy to find you; I look forward to reading more.
Happy Happy Holidays!