Ask me if I care about the infidelity of Tiger Woods. My answer is a loud and clear No!
Let me rephrase that, “No, thank you. I’ve had enough.”
Besides, I’m trying to find the good. I just finished writing an article about women artists in Haiti making gratitude journals for income. That, to me, is worth paying attention to.
Who wouldn’t want to read about people making a positive difference? Do we all really want to feast on the latest celebrity to implode?
Let’s face it. It’s hard to praise. It’s easy to criticize. It’s hard to create. It’s easy to destroy. (Even in this blog post, I’m going negative about people going negative.)
But let me try to remember My Rule Numer 5: Expect the best, love what you get.
Maybe I’m thinking about all of this, because I have given up gossip and criticism for Lent. I’m feeling righteous. And it’s really hard. (My friend Barbara told me not to give up both — one or the other. But heck, I’m an overachiever!)
I want to go through life finding the good in people. It’s actually harder to be happy, joyful, optimistic than it is to critical, snarky, mean.
Does anyone have any good news? I’m open to hear it.